Lauren Narkiewicz

Lititz, PA, United States

Amateur hunter (trying to become a dressage queen) rider and horse lover! All about learning and creating connection with my mare

Jan 16 at 08:28 AM

Today she took that trust and gave me the middle finger... it was definitely a "work with the horse in front of you" day today. It was hard and upsetting, but we got through it. Mares. Lol

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Jan 15 at 03:31 PM

So I was doing some work with my mare on the lunge line today.. shebwas not happy, was reactive, and just saying "no". I thought "hmmm... she isn't typically like this during groundwork or lunge line stuff, maybe I should take it off ". ..
Now, part of me was struggling with this because she was being "naughty" (I rarely use that term... but there was a whole lot of "no ma'am " happening today), and if I took it off, was I allowing her to get away with this not-so-great behavior?? Well, I trusted my gut, and took her rope halter and line off. Initially she was just walking around sniffing, only paying attention to me about 10% of the time. I let her sniff then asked her to move forward.
To my very pleasant surprise, my mare did a lovely trot and canter circle around me, even kept it about a perfect 20m circle. She listened to my voice cues, my body language. It was awesome!!!! Maybe she was annoyed i wasnt "trusting" her and today needed to be the day I let her work at liberty!!! It was so lovely!!
I finished our time off by putting her back on the lead line and asking her to trot over some ground poles. This time, she was soft, nice and forward, stretching forward and down. I wanted her to finish on the lunge line in a positive light, and she totally did.
Today was a huge win for us. My mare is definitely showing me that I can trust her and ask her for more than I have realized!

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Jan 15 at 03:14 PM

Can't wait to listen.. im a huge believer in animal communicators, and have used them for years!!

Jan 14 at 08:21 AM

Mark Rashid's books are all EXCELLENT and I recommend them to everyone!

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Jan 12 at 02:46 AM

Loved this.. the thing that stuck out the most for me was teaching the bend by them engaging with us, not by using force and creating bend that way. Really cool

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Dec 10 at 03:56 AM

Ansley - I have a probable PSSM2 mare (chronically sore, gets intermittent relief, but nothing long lasting). My vet and I decided to "treat her like a PSSM2 mare" and see how she progresses over the next 6weeks or so. The plan is to do the muscle biopsy once I have the funds. In the meantime, other than proper diet, tack, consistent exercise and bodywork, what are things you suggest for your horse's that live with this condition? It seems to be a tricky one, and I just want my mare to feel good and be a happy, willing partner.

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Oct 12 at 04:28 AM

This is awesome!!!! I've vacationed a bunch in Bozeman and actually used to own property there! This is a sweet restaurant too. Sad I can't be there (I'm in PA) but this is awesome and enjoy!!!

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Oct 07 at 10:21 AM

Not a Montana girl, but my husband and I have vacationed in Bozeman about 5x!! How awesome!

Oct 05 at 06:02 AM

So after watching this (I'm 2/3 through) I'm realizing that my mare is very much a space horse, then a close second with mind. I've been struggling with this! So I'm excited to put some practical work in to it 🤗

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Oct 03 at 03:40 PM

Awesome!!

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